What does this mean anyways?
noun: a competitor thought to have little chance of winning a fight or contest
a person who has little status in society
How often have you put yourself in the position of being the underdog?
If you set yourself up in public to be the underdog, you're also training your brain and your body to be the underdog. STOP IT!
It seems to make everything go a lot smoother when you take the pressure and expectations off and go through the workout with fluff and stuff.
Being the underdog not only causes you to have an excuse to work less, but it gives some people a sense of entitlement to complain.
"I'm not good so no one pays attention to me." "No one wants to be my partner." "No one will ever choose me for their team." "No one gives me special recognition."
You know what? The only person who invites people to the pity party is the host- burn the invitations because nobody really wants to come- not even you!
So what if you are (or consider yourself to be) the underdog. Use it to your advantage.
Train your weaknesses.
Be confident about yourself.
The only approval and praise you need to keep moving is your own. You can cheer for yourself in your head (I do it all the time- it works!).
I think being the underdog is a huge advantage. When your hard work pays off and you rise above, proving everyone else wrong- the victory party is going to be far greater than that small pity party you've been attending.
It's not going to happen overnight, it's going to take time and hard work- but you do not have to be the underdog.
Show up and get it done!